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  • Attaining Maturity - Jean Vanier

    Daily Thoughts from Jean Vanier
    Attaining Maturity - Jean Vanier

    Many of Aristotle's principles are valid for any ethics. Being human does not mean simply obeying laws that come from outside, but attaining maturity. Being human means becoming as perfectly accomplished as possible. If we do not become fully accomplished, someting is lost to the whole of humanity. For Aristotle this accomplishment derives from the most perfect activity: that of seeking the truth in all things, shunning lies and illusions, acting in accordance with justice, transcending oneself to act for the good of others in society. -

    - Jean Vanier, Made For Happiness, quoted in Jean Vanier, Essential Writings, p. 27

  • to really understand somebody...

    "I think it's impossible to really understand somebody, what they want, what they believe, and not love them"
    - Ender's Game

  • Christmas Party Cambodian Style!

    Yesterday was the Logos International Staff Christmas Party what a celebration!


  • An "Ask" for Your Prayers

    An ask... for your prayer...

    As you might imagine, there are many ways to help financially here... these are my favourites because they have or are planning to let me do quilting/patchwork lessons with them! 

    Please pray I might help others find joy in creativity and that I might continue to be faithful to the Love and Compassion of Jesus in this place.  I'm so excited about the quilting supplies my church & family are sending & bringing over. The notions and tools will help with this small but fun endeavor!  Thank you Helen, Jan and Mom!

  • These are a few of my favourite things... in Phnom Penh

    These are a few of my favourite things...
    Pizza night every other Friday...

    From Pizza Night with Bonnie and Co

    Relaxation (such a lovely cappuccino and croissant)

    From The Shop on 240

    Celebration

    From Selina's 6th Birthday

    Song

    From Cantabile - Classical Music Concert
  • Thank you Judy for find this... Twiggy singing "In My Life"

    This gentle song sung by Twiggy of both gratitude and sad remembering is tender and timeless somehow...

  • The Beatles - In My Life

    Any Muppet's fans out there remember when Twiggy was on... she sang this song... aired November 9-11, 1976... I was eleven years old. I remember being moved and when it was mentioned on an acquaintance's Facebook status as a good song for Thanksgiving I agreed... it seems more of a lament than a celebration yet so very full of gratitude.

    The Beatles - In My Life

    There are places I remember
    All my life though some have changed
    Some forever not for better
    Some have gone and some remain
    All these places had their moments
    With lovers and friends I still can recall
    Some are dead and some are living
    In my life I've loved them all

    But of all these friends and lovers
    There is no one compares with you
    And these memories lose their meaning
    When I think of love as something new
    Though I know I'll never lose affection
    For people and things that went before
    I know I'll often stop and think about them
    In my life I love you more

    Though I know I'll never lose affection
    For people and things that went before
    I know I'll often stop and think about them
    In my life I love you more
    In my life I love you more

  • Nearly Five Months in Cambodia

    In four days I'll have been in Cambodia for five months... wow!!! Do I have ways to describe this "honeymoon" phase of the adventure? I'll try... My life has been simplified, as has my schedule. I review some aspects of work, home, church, travel and my other interests.

    Work - Much easier than expected. I have two Kindergarten kids I help, five Grade Ones, five Grade Twos, I visit the Grade Three class occasionally, I visit the Grade Four class regularly and pull in three students from that class along with two from the Grade Five class. I help two high-school students with homework strategies and one middle-school student with some speech therapy exercises he's been given to work on. Seventeen ESL students in total.

    I had an encouraging evaluation from the Elementary Principal last week. Through it we decided to come up with IEPs (Individual Educational Plans) for each. I'm also able to help with some reading evaluations for the Elementary grade levels. I've had the opportunity to substitute teach in Kindergarten several times. I've also helped once in the after-school program baking oatmeal cookies!

    I've helped with the "Sunshine Committee" around getting fresh coffee made regularly for teachers with "First Friday of the Month" cinnamon buns! I've facilitated staff devotions twice.
    I'm on the Elementary Christmas Pageant committee too!

    Next week I'll meet with a group around "Summer School" I'll be helping coordinate some of the program which will run from June 14th in two three week sessions. Some friends from my home town may be able to join me here to help with this... Do you wanna come too???

    As I mentioned earlier I also volunteered for several day earlier in the month at a "girls group home" also under the same umbrella organization as the school. We did patchwork and I made Japanese Summer Soup... yum! (very thin Rice noodles cooked and plunged in ice water, drained then topped with shredded veggies, sushi egg strips, mushrooms and a sauce of 1/2 c. soy sauce, 1/2 c. sugar 1/2 c. vinegar with 1 t. sesame oil and 1t. grated ginger... Delish!)

    Work has had a couple of stretching days yet, somehow, all was diffused before it could be terribly discouraging.

    Home - I live with a Khmer host family, a house hold of nine people. My host and his wife have a nearly 10 month old boy and he has a nearly six year old girl from his first marriage. My host's father and niece (who cooks) live in this three-bedroom townhouse. I enjoy one of the three rooms (a bedroom with Air Con) and share a bathroom with my host and his wife. Two house helpers also live here one to help with the baby and one to help with the cleaning.

    In the 19 year old niece I have found a kindred spirit. She is an excellent cook and so she regularly blesses my inner "foodie" with such amazing morsels of deliciousness!

    While I'm away most of the day, leaving at about 6:50 a.m. each day and returning at about 5:30, meal times and family prayers are special. I've told a friend this prayer-time is "getting lotus" meditation with my family as we sit on the tiled floor in a circle on very thin cushions. I don't understand much but each evening from about 8 to 9 most of the household gathers to sing hymns and traditional songs, open in prayer and read a chapter of the Bible, each person reads a verse in a circle and graciously I'm allowed to read in English, whew! After the scripture we share prayer requests, pray for each other, then there is a closing prayer and a closing song... which I have written out and can sing if I read along :) Each person takes on responsibility for some piece of it rotating daily though I haven't figured out the rotation as it seems very random to me. 

    I feel privileged to have this glimpse into the everyday life of a family living the challenges of Cambodia's recent history... I often feel as if I am walking on ground made holy by the blood of so many innocents... even now so many suffer the horrors of the past. I pray to be able to be one who "bears witness" and lives to tell others of the way of forgiveness and love through Christ.

    Church - I've been attending a very conservative Khmer church... but one day I got locked in. I needed to leave the building before the service was finished because of the heat and stale still air... I nearly fainted waiting by the door as each of three different keys that was tried didn't fit and someone had to run up several flights of stairs each time. When I finally got out I was loath to return. So I haven't. Last week a colleague from another school and I attended a lovely service at the Anglican Church. The worship and the English service was good. I think I'll continue going there as it is walking distance from my favourite coffee/croissant shop, which I will also continue to go to before hand! I hope to visit the Khmer church for the Christmas pageant which will be the retelling of the Nativity in a Khmer context in Khmer traditional dress! I'll take photos!

    Travel - I've been to the beach three times: twice to Sihanoukville and once to Koh Kong. I've also been to Battambang. I had an invite to go to Kampot province this weekend yet I felt a quiet weekend at home was a better choice... though I was keen to go to see if I could see black pepper growing. The pepper in Kampot is considered, by some, to be the best in the world.

    Other - I've been doing some "patchwork" quilting and some friendship making and much Journaling... I read recently prayer is when one talks to the Divine and meditation us when one listens... so really, I guess, I've been doing a lot of meditative listening. This was from last week's  meditation:

    Dear One,

    Peace be with you, in you, on you, around you and through you... Grace and Peace.
    Lift up your heart. In doing this you are releasing yourself from your responsibility for it. Take comfort in my care. My compassion toward you is boundless. I love you with an everlasting love, with abundant joy and with unimaginable mercy. You are mine and I am yours. You are mine in ways which will transform you not diminish you. Wait patiently as this transformation occurs.

    As you dash about, let me tether you with a firm conviction of my unerring love. Let this love have an irresistible pull toward the center of my purposes for you. May my mercy and grace be the magnetic force which keeps you secure in my Truth. Allow prayer, quiet, thoughtfulness and my reassuring presence to shape and guide your feelings, thoughts and actions.
    Amen

  • A Mystical Image for Service

    A Mystical Image for Service - Ron Rolheiser

    2009-11-08

    When the young French mystic, Therese of Lisieux, was trying to explain her vocation, she referred to a soul-searing insight that was once given her:

    One Sunday, looking at a picture of Our Lord on the Cross, I was struck by the blood flowing from one of his divine hands. I felt a pang of great sorrow when thinking this blood was falling on the ground without anyone's hastening to gather it up. I was resolved to remain in spirit at the foot of the Cross and to receive its dew. ... I don't want this precious blood to be lost. I shall spend my life gathering it up for the good of souls. ... To live from love is to dry Your Face.

    At one level, this can be seen as an image of simple excess piety, an over-pious young nun sitting in a chapel, admiring a crucifix and getting emotionally over-wrought in an imaginative scene of Jesus being abused and crucified. But this is a metaphor, a mystical image, and a very challenging one.

    When Therese of Lisieux speaks of Christ here she is referring not just, nor even primarily, to the body of the historical Jesus, but to the body of Christ in this world. Christ is still suffering and blood is still flowing from his face and his hands in many parts of our world. One of our tasks as Christians, and simply as human beings, is to, metaphorically, notice that blood, gather it up, and properly honour it. The Christian task, always, is to stand at the foot of the cross and gather up its dew so that this preciousness is not lost.

    How do we do that?

    • When Amnesty International, or any group or individual dedicated to justice, goes to war-torn and violent parts of our world, documents the violence there, and lists publicly the names of all those who have been made to disappear, they are standing at the foot of the cross, receiving its dew, and hastening to gather it up.

    • When a nun leaves the safety and security of her own country and community and travels to Sudan to be with women who are being raped and documents their stories, she is standing at the foot of the cross, receiving its dew, and hastening to gather it up.

    • When a friend on a playground rushes in after an incident to console the vulnerable young person who has just been humiliated by the school bully, she is standing at the foot of the cross, receiving its dew, and hastening to gather it up.

    • When a man, like Greg Mortenson, steps out of a life of privilege and comfort to risk everything, including life itself, to build schools in the most rural parts of Pakistan so that young Muslims, especially young Muslim women, can receive an education, he is standing at the foot of the cross, receiving its dew, and hastening to gather it up.

    • When men and women dedicate their lives to working with the mentally disabled so as to help enable the lives and dignity of those whose talents are different, they are standing at the foot of the cross, receiving its dew, and hastening to gather it up.

    • When an idealistic young person joins the peace-corps, or becomes a missionary, in the sincere desire to help someone who is less privileged, he or she is standing at the foot of the cross, receiving its dew, and hastening to gather it up.

    And ...

    • Whenever any of us takes time at our place of work or in our home to listen to that wounded soul who has worn out everyone's patience with complaints and whining reminiscences, we are standing at the foot of the cross, receiving its dew, and hastening to gather it up.

    • Whenever any of us makes the effort to listen with empathy to that frustrated friend, colleague, or sibling, who is wrapped-up in jealous frustration because his or her life has not turned out as he or she had dreamed, we are standing at the foot of the cross, receiving its dew, and hastening to gather it up.

    • Whenever any of us notices another's achievement and sincerely congratulates and blesses him or her on that success, we are standing at the foot of the cross, receiving its dew, and hastening to gather it up.

    • Whenever any of us, empathically, pray for all those people in this world whose dreams are being crushed and who are suffering the martyrdom of obscurity and anonymity, we are standing at the foot of the cross, receiving its dew, and hastening to gather it up.

    Blood still flows from both the hands and the face of the one being crucified. Mostly it goes unnoticed, with no one hastening to gather it up.

    Our task, like that of Therese of Lisieux, is to notice, and the make sure that this preciousness does not go unnoticed, unmarked, without its proper honour.

  • "In Memory of Jesus and the Saints" - Henri Nouwen & "Our Daily Bread" - Jean Vanier

    Daily Thoughts from Jean Vanier
    Our Daily Bread - Jean Vanier

    If we are to remain faithful to the daily round, we need daily manna. It may be ordinary, a bit tasteless. But it is the manna of fidelity to the covenant, to responsibility, to the small things of everyday life. It is the manna of meetings, of friendship, of looks and smiles that say 'I love you' and that warm the heart.

    - Jean Vanier, Community and Growth, p. 169

     Daily Meditation (Henri Nouwen)

    In Memory of Jesus and the Saints - Henri Nouwen

    Belonging to the communion of saints means being connected with all people transformed by the Spirit of Jesus. This connection is deep and intimate. Those who have lived as brothers and sisters of Jesus continue to live within us, even though they have died, just as Jesus continues to live within us, even though he has died.

    We live our lives in memory of Jesus and the saints, and this memory is a real presence. Jesus and his saints are part of our most intimate and spiritual knowledge of God. They inspire us, guide us, encourage us, and give us hope. They are the source of our constant transformation. Yes, we carry them in our bodies and thus keep them alive for all with whom we live and work.